The Black Dress Traveler

In the Bag: Travel Essentials for Gals on the Go

Let's face it, travel isn't always easy and sometimes the act of getting to your dream destination can feel like a nightmare. The Black Dress Traveler is always on the lookout for products that make life on the road easier. Pack these goodies and go!

Chick on The Go Travel Kit
5 Garments, 2 Accessories, 1 Carry-On Bag
$199 ($179 if you use code TONY10 by June 18)
I was flipping through the recent travel themed issue of Time Out NY magazine and this clever little kit caught my eye. Never worry about lost luggage when you carry on this ultra compact case that contains a black slip dress, a black wide leg pant, an off-white long sleeve shirt, an off-white tank top, and a black poncho that can be worn as a skirt and a shirt. The Chick on the Go kit also contains two sashes, black and white, that can be worn as a belt, a scarf, or a headband. The garments are made of a rayon spandex blend and mix and match together to create 25 different looks. This little bag of fashion weighs less than 4 pounds!

 

Pack and Protect Your Wine in The Jet Bag
$15 for a pack of 3
I remember buying wine in Paris and stressing out about how to get it back home. Since I could not carry it on the plane, I wrapped each bottle in newspaper, placed it in a plastic bag, wrapped it in layers of clothing, and prayed that it would survive the rough and tumble road that is checked baggage -it did. But thank goodness, there is a better and easier way and it is called the Jet Bag. 

Described as "a bio-degradable carrier with a reusable zip seal closure, the Jet Bag completely secures your liquids. It is lined with the same absorbent  materials found in baby diapers. The material pads & protects your bottle, but also rapidly absorbs up 100% of any liquid spilled, insuring against damage to your valuables." Such a simple yet brilliant idea! Jet Bags are reusable and available in packs of 3, 10, and 25.

Beach Bag Essentials at 3Floz.com
$74.50
With the exception of a little black bikini, this kit has almost everything you need to be the belle of the beach. It is filled with luxe goodies like Supergoop! Everyday Protection SPF 30+ Spray, Air Repair Complexion Quenching Facial Mist, and Archipelago Mint Lip Balm with SPF 15. It even has Anthony for Men After Sun Soothing Cream, that can be used by guys and gals to calm skin that has had too much sun.

Moms Make the World Go Round: Mother's Day Gifts

People often talk about mama's boys with disdain but this lady is proud to proclaim myself a mama's girl! My mom, the incredible Toni, has always been my biggest cheerleader and closest friend. And, of course, she bought me my first little black dress! A petite powerhouse, my mom moved to New York City from Georgia as a teenager and is a charming combination of southern sweetness and northern chutzpah! It is not easy raising a child with chronic wanderlust but Toni always encouraged me to travel and supported my decision to attend boarding school at 14 and study in Spain when I was 16 & 20. Now, we live only about a mile away from each other and I look forward to the day when we finally take that mother-daughter trip to Hawaii.

Where would we be without loving moms? They are our rocks and our nurturers. They know just when to comfort us with gentle hugs and straighten us out with tough love. Mother's Day is one of my favorite holidays because it celebrates the power and value of women - something that really should happen everyday. My Mom is a fan of flowers, perfume, and stylish sweater sets but here are a few other gifts with flair that are just perfect for Mother's Day!


Same Sky Prosperity Bracelets
$50 & $60 each
These pretty bracelets make a powerful difference in the lives of women. Crocheted by women artisans of the Abataka Collective in Lusaka, Zambia, SAME SKY’s initial project employs HIV+ women in Rwanda who survived the 1994 Genocide. The one size fits all Prosperity Bracelets are intricately crocheted and made of delicate seed beads on a stretchy cord. "With the purchase of a Prosperity bracelet you become a part of the powerful circle connecting women everywhere under the Same Sky..."

 

Queen Mother Mug and St. Paul's London Breakfast Tea
(Mug $10.99 & tea $8.79 at the English Tea Store.)
 Queen Elizabeth may rule England but every loving mom is a queen. My Mom still raves about some particularly delicious English Breakfast Tea that I bought her on a trip to London. And, during my teen years, she always made a pot of tea before those facts of life talks. Mom may just find this little gift amidst her Mother's Day goodies! 

  Sibu Beauty Luxe Kit
$92.24
Order by Weds and get 35% off and free shipping with code SIBUMOM2011.
Pamper mom with fabulous natural skin care from Sibu Beauty. These all natural products are packed with nutrients from the sea buckthorn berry - a tiny but resilient fruit that grows high in the Tibetan Himalayas and is an unsurpassed source of Omegas 3, 6, and 9. It is also a rich source of the fatty acid Omega-7 - vital to collagen production and healthy skin, hair and nails. The Sibu Beauty Luxe Kit includes Sea Buckthorn Balancing Facial Cleanser, Hydrating Serum, and Rejuvenating Night Cream. I especially like the cleanser, it has a lovely aroma of fresh tangerines and cleans very gently and thoroughly without stripping the skin. It also has micro-particles that gently exfoliate - very important because dry & flaky skin is so aging. The serum is formulated to naturally stimulate collagen production and the rejuvenating cream can smooth away those fine lines and wrinkles that mom earned from worrying about you!

Peach Viscose Tonal Floral Pashmina
$19.95 at Scarves.com
My Mom loves a nice scarf  - in the photo, she is wearing one that I bought her in Paris. Scarves are not only a fashionable way to jazz up a little black dress but are a must-have for travel. This elegant floral pattern in shades of gray, black and peach is perfect for spring. You can find this style and many others at Scarves.com.

 

UNICEF Beaded Glass Necklace
$35
UNICEF has a great selection of gifts that moms will adore. The proceeds from these stylish trinkets support their mission to help children in need around the world. Hand made in India, this beaded glass necklace will add a bit of elegant drama to mom's ensemble.

Shop for Solidarity: Small Gestures to Help Japan

It has been one month and a day since Japan was changed forever by the massive earthquake and tsunami that claimed so many lives. The news media may have lessened their coverage of this tragedy but I imagine that for the people of Japan this has been the longest month of their lives as they mourn, rebuild, and face each day feeling less certain about what the future holds. I confess to feeling helpless in the face of such epic disasters. I pray, I donate what funds I can, and pray some more. All of these are small gestures but small gestures by many can create a big change. The proceeds from the following items will benefit those in Japan that have been impacted by the disaster and send an important message of solidarity.

HOPE Japan bag by what'Surbag
$24.99 (also available in silver & gold)
This company launched with the HOPE bag to help the city of New Orleans recover after Hurricane Katrina - now what'Surbag is sharing the love with the people of Japan. 100% of the profits from the HOPE Japan bag will benefit the American Red Cross Japan Earthquake and Pacific Tsunami Fund. These  bags are made of a super stretchy fabric called its-LAS-tik that can hold up to 45 pounds and take the shape of the contents inside. In addition to the HOPE Japan and HOPE NOLA styles, what'Surbag offers a wide selection of colors and sizes that are perfect for travel and everyday use.

Anna Sui Charity T-Shirt for Japan
$20. Available in lavender & black. Ships April 15th.
Don't be shy about your feelings - designer Anna Sui's 100% cotton t-shirt printed with the message "Japan. We're All in This Together" sends a bold and sweet message. All proceeds will go to Japan disaster relief.



Tory Burch Japan Relief T-Shirt
$29. Available for pre-order.
Colorful tunics made her famous but Tory Burch hopes to make a difference with her limited edition t-shirt - 100% of the proceeds will go to the American Red Cross to benefit the Japan earthquake and Pacific tsunami relief efforts.

Freeman Vineyard & Winery 2007 Sonoma   Coast Pinot Noir
$125 for a Magnum (1.5 liters)
  One of California's most acclaimed small wineries, Freeman is donating 100% of the proceeds from select magnums to the Japan Society of Northern California Earthquake & Tsunami Relief Fund with Give2Asia. Their special effort to help the relief effort has already raised $25,000. Help them raise some more money by filing your glass with their 2007 Sonoma Coast Pinot Noir. Supplies are limited.

Fab Frock Friday: Little Black & White Dress by Tracy Reese

Looking for the perfect little black dress for your next night out or getaway? Each Friday, The Black Dress Traveler showcases a fabulous frock. Wishing you a weekend full of little black dresses and big adventures!

   

Tracy Reese Black Baby Giraffe Flounced Peasant
$238
I love the flirty and easy-breezy silhouette of this Tracy Reese frock. Very sweet from the front, the deep scoop back adds a touch of spice. If you have been shying away from ferocious animal prints, this abstract circles of this gentle giraffe print are a gorgeous option.

Fab Frock Friday: Little Black Floral Dress by Ann Taylor

Looking for the perfect little black dress for your next night out or getaway? Each Friday, The Black Dress Traveler showcases a fabulous frock. Wishing you a weekend full of little black dresses and big adventures!


Ann Taylor Timeless Floral Print Sheath
$138
This dress screams, in a very ladylike way, that spring is in the air! I'm not normally a floral girl but this Ann Taylor frock is an elegant and modern interpretation of the classic floral sheath. You can never go wrong with black and white and the asymmetrical draping at one shoulder is a sophisticated detail that takes this dress from basic to attention-getting. This dress would be perfect for a garden party or luncheon event.

Fab Frock Friday: Little Black & White Dress by ZARA

Looking for the perfect little black dress for your next night out or getaway? Each Friday, The Black Dress Traveler showcases a fabulous frock. Wishing you a weekend full of little black dresses and big adventures!

ZARA Printed Kimono
$59.90
Now that spring is on the horizon,  roar goodbye to the winter doldrums in this ferocious black and white animal print from ZARA. Show off your bare legs in this fierce frock or pair it with tights or leggings. One of the largest fashion companies in the world, I've been a fan of ZARA since I lived in Spain. You can always count on them for fashion forward looks that are well made and not too expensive.

Fab Frock Friday: Little Black Dress by Michelle Jonas Travelwear

Looking for the perfect little black dress for your next night out or getaway? Each Friday, The Black Dress Traveler showcases a fabulous frock. Wishing you a weekend full of little black dresses and big adventures!

Michelle Jonas Travelwear
Grecian Twist Jersey Dress
$200

You may recall that I posted a link to this LBD on my Facebook page when it was featured on the Today show during one of their deal segments. I ordered mine right away because the special price of $59 was only available for 24 hours. Now that I have my dress, I wanted to give you the scoop.

Due to the overwhelming demand that was generated by the Today deal, it took about 3 weeks for my frock to arrive but It was worth the wait. This dress is very sexy but also very comfortable. To prove just how travel-friendly it is, the dress was packaged in a cute little drawstring fabric pouch. Washable in cold water, the dress is made of micromodal with just a touch of spandex for a great fit. This frock looks great as is, but can also be worn with a blazer or sweater, with bare legs or hosiery. It is also available in red, grey, and white.

I was not familiar with Michelle Jonas until the Today show, but apparenty she has quite the celebrity following - Angelina Jolie, Pink, and Jessica Simpson have all been spotted in her designs.

Fab Frock Friday: Little Black Dress by Alexander Wang

Looking for the perfect little black dress for your next night out or getaway? Each Friday, The Black Dress Traveler showcases a fabulous frock. Wishing you a weekend full of little black dresses and big adventures!

T by Alexander Wang
Classic Jersey Tank Dress
$105 at Net-a-Porter
Fashion wunderkind Alexander Wang launched his women's collection in 2007 and in 2008 he was honored with the prestigious Vogue/CFDA Fashion Fund award. Not too shabby.

This sexy little black dress is from Wang's less expensive T line. Made of hand washable rayon, this travel friendly frock is a perfect example of casual chic. The sleek design makes it a great vacation dress that can take you through a day of sightseeing to evening cocktails.

The Little Black Dress Empire: All LBD, All the Time

Sometimes it seems like when you are on a mission to find the perfect little black dress that every obstacle is in your way. Nothing against those other colors but when you are determined to locate the perfect LBD anything else is a nuisance. Like me, have you ever wished for a website that only sold and celebrated little black dresses? Well, our sartorial prayers have been answered in the form of The Little Black Dress Empire.

Created by Australian businesswoman Juliette Knox, the Little Black Dress Empire is a carefully curated collection of LBDs from many designers at various price points.

I was honored when The Little Black Dress Empire invited me to be their very first guest blogger. Click here to read my post, For the Love of the Little Black Dress, to learn more about my love affair with the LBD. I also picked five of my favorite frocks from their site, including the stunning Bella Silk dress pictured at the beginning of this post.

Also, just in time for the holidays, The Little Black Dress Empire is offering a 20% discount on selected designer dresses until December 24th. Happy shopping!

'Tis the Season: Twelve Gorgeous & Great Gifts for Gals on the Go

Sometimes the true meaning of the holidays gets lost in all of the shopping chaos but you don't need to max out your credit cards to show someone you care. Traveling ladies appreciate functional gifts that make life on the road easier. I've put together a list of twelve great gifts that will bring a holiday smile to the jetsetting divas in your life without sending you to the poor house. After all, you need some money leftover to treat yourself too!

Samsonite XSpace Expandable Spinner Carryon
on sale at Ebags for $161.99 and free shipping.
Samsonite may not be the sexiest luggage on the market but their bags have a stellar reputation due to their sturdiness and functionality. Also available in Galaxy Black and Mars Red, this brightly colored carry-on has multi-directional wheels that provide 360 degree upright rolling. The case expands but fits easily into overhead bins. 

Le SportSac Large Weekender
$81.48 at Endless.com
Perfect for a weekend getaway, this lightweight bag has a playful pattern, plenty of compartments, and a roomy interior. Various patterns available. 


Packable Down Jacket in a Pouch
$119 at TravelSmith
Water-repellent, tear-resistant and windproof, this sleek down jacket comes in a  drawstring
pouch that can double as a pillow on the plane. Also available in black.

Flip Video Mini HD Camcorder
$199.99 at Amazon
Capturing travel memories on video is super-easy with this compact camcorder. Tiny enough to fit into a pocket or purse, the Flip is big on features, including HD quality video and easy uploads to Facebook and YouTube.




Juicy Couture Leopard Laptop Sleeve
$78.00 at Endless.com
Animal print is all the rage this season  - protect a laptop in fierce style with this glossy vinyl leopard sleeve.


Very Hollywood by Michael Kors Gloss & Rollerball
$18 at Sephora
Glam touch-ups on the go are a cinch with this chic lipgloss and fragrance combo. Airline approved, slip this into your bag to spritz and slick anywhere.

Invicta Women's Limited Edition Diamond Chronograph Watch
On sale for $129.99 at Endless.com (regular price is $695)
Missing a flight is next to impossible with this gorgeous watch on your wrist. Keep track of time in style. Blinged out with 16  hand-set diamonds and a mother-of-pearl face, this watch is also sturdy - it has a stainless steel case and is water resistant up to 330 ft. 

The World Traveler Note Card by She's Got Papers
$3.00 per card or $12 for a set of 6.  Set of 6 personalized cards is $36.
Even in a high-tech world, a handwritten note still has major impact. Give a set of these whimsical cards to your favorite jetsetter so she can send you a note full of juicy details about her latest getaway. After all, secrets are too sacred for a postcard and should be placed in a sealed envelope!

Kate Spade Foiled Again Medium Leila Cosmetic Case
$60 at Endless.com
Flashy and classy at the same time, this medium sized cosmetics bag is a fun way to keep makeup organized. And, that flash of gold will make it easy to spot in the most cluttered tote bag! Also available in silver.

Kushyfoot Flats to Go
$8.99 at Kushyfoot.com
These fun flats are the perfect stocking stuffer for every traveling lady on your list. Made of soft and flexible faux leather, Kushyfoot Flats to Go come in a convenient plastic carrier that slips easily inside a purse. I keep a pair in my bag for instant relief whenever my feet start aching. Available in black, gold and silver.

Little Black Convertible Dress
$155 at NuovaVitaonline.com
One flirty little black dress with 12 different looks is a dream come true for a traveler! Light and flowy, this functional frock is comfy and cute.

PEACE Black Sheer Jersey Chemise
$36 at Peace Love World
Give your favorite traveler a wearable message of peace in this triple-threat chemise that functions as sleepwear, a tank or a dress. With the word "Peace"  imprinted on the bottom, this garment is a perfect sentiment for the holiday season and always.

Retail Therapy in New York City: Fashion for Action & Lanvin for H&M

No visit to the Big Apple is complete without indulging in some retail therapy. For high style at low prices, check out these fantastic shopping opportunities in New York City.

Housing Works: Fashion for Action
Public Sample Sale through Sunday, November 21.
Shop for a great cause at this high fashion event. Top designers, including Diane von Furstenberg, Cynthia Rowley, Dolce & Gabbana have donated $1 million worth of current season samples to help Housing Works continue their fight to end AIDS and homelessness. All items are being sold at 50%-70% off retail.

Lanvin for H&M
Hard core fashionistas have been lined up since the wee hours of the morning in the hopes of snagging one of Lanvin's exclusive H&M creations. Lanvin designer Alber Elbaz is one of the kings of couture and his fashions are frequently seen on the red carpet and on jetsetters. Now, thanks to the partnership with H&M, you can own a Lanvin design for a fraction of the price. For example, many of the fantastic cocktail dresses are $199. Lanvin will only be available at 200 H&M stores. The collection launches on November 20 in the United States and on November 23 globally.

Shop in Jersey City: Global Entrepreneurship Week
Through Sunday, November 21.
If you cross the Hudson River, you can find some great deals (and no sales tax on clothing) in New Jersey. As part of Global Entrepreneurship Week, shoppers are encouraged to support small Jersey City businesses. Hop the PATH train and get shopping!

Little Heels with Big Style at Scarpasa.com

My Grandmother warned me. She said pounding the pavement day after day in skinny high heels would take a toll on my tootsies. Ouch, was she right. But hey, even Lady Gaga occasionally has trouble managing super high heels - poor thing took quite the tumble at Heathrow Airport over the summer.

These days, when I go shopping, I look at the height of the heel before the price and will gladly pay more for a shoe that is comfortable AND stylish. The problem is that the comfy shoes tend to look more dowdy than sexy. I often look at the pretty sky high stilettos and contemplate chopping off the heels to a more manageable height.

Apparently, I'm not the only lady who has been hoping for a sexy sensible shoe genie. Well, that genie has finally arrived in the form of a website called Scarpasa.com. Founded by Christina Lahur, Scarpasa's motto is "lower your heels, not your expectations" and  they only sell shoes with heels that are a maximum of 3 inches high - a height that is practical for travel and everyday. Here are a few of the chic and comfy styles that will jazz up a little black dress. 

Rebecca Sanver - Lopez red leather pump. $275


Biondini -Viviane peep toe pump. $185

Miezko - Jana convertible brushed suede bootie. $255.

Homers - Laura short hair flat. $250.


Miezko-Christina knee high boot. $375.

Go Pink Darling: Shop and Travel for the Cure!

Breast cancer is blind to borders and impacts women around the world. A cure may seem like a long way off but every dollar raised gets us closer to conquering this disease. Purchase one of these power pink items for your next trip and a donation will be made to an organization focused on breast cancer awareness and research.

Fly Pink with American Airlines
October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month and American Airlines is acknowledging it in a big way. Employees will be decked out in pink and passengers are encouraged to do so on October 15 for a "pink-out day."  American Airlines supports Susan G. Komen for the Cure.

Ralph Lauren Pink Pony Cashmere Travel Set - $395
Every trip is first-class with this luxurious kit that includes a plush cashmere throw, eye mask, and a coordinating zip bag.



Pink Luggage at eBags.com
Pack for the cure! Since 2004, eBags has contributed more than $500,000 to breast cancer research research, treatment, screening, and education.

 

Armitron Women's NOW Mother of Pearl Dial Breast Cancer Awareness Watch - $30
Don't miss that flight! Keep track of time with this easy to read and affordable pink watch available at Endless.com.


Think Pink 60 Minute Holistic Massage at The Peninsula Spa by ESPA - $195
If your travels take you to the fast paced Big Apple, unwind with a massage and complimentary hair & scalp mud application at this swanky spa. The treatment is available from October 1 - 31.


Pink Lemonade on Delta Airlines
Purchase a $2 cup of pink lemonade on Delta during the month of October and the entire amount will be donated to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation.

Luggage Lust: Five Fab Bags at Endless.com

Confession - luggage lust hits me whenever I see a stylish bag cocooned in the overhead bin or boldly cruising down the conveyor belt.

A friend recently told me about Endless.com, an online boutique that sells chic shoes, accessories, and bags (for men and women) at great prices - they also offer free shipping on all new styles. I like my luggage functional and cute but I don't want my suitcase to cost more than my vacation so Endless seems like a fantastic option. Here are five fab bags featured on Endless.com that caught my eye.

Halsea Kona Koi Weekend Bag - $295
"nautical-inspired print canvas is made from pure cotton and laminated for durability"

LeSportsac Sidney Overnighter - $81.51
"cool fabric in a colorful palette with plenty of space and a couple of pockets for the little things"

The SAK Artist Circle Weekend - $76.18
"eco-minded in its fabrication (half the exterior and all of the interior are made from recycled fibers) while combining a blissed-out print with cool webbing accents and other pretty trims"

Jimeale New York Weekend Tote - $59.95
"A roomy interior and attachable shoulder strap make it functional, but practicality nearly pales in comparison to the appealing look of its prettily printed satin exterior."

Swoop Weekend Bag - $38
"The zip-around design allows you to open the bag and lay it flat on a countertop. Inside, you'll find two vinyl zip pockets for organization and convenience."

Strut in Style Every Season in SPRING Shoes

Looking for a chic way to jazz up a little black dress? Step into some sexy shoes! As a traveler, I often choose comfort over style in footwear. However, when I was invited to a party at Spring shoes at Manhattan Mall in New York City, I decided that the time had come to step out of my shoe rut. Spring spoiled each of us party attendees with a $150 gift card and I intended to put it to good use. Mission: find a fierce pair of red shoes. 

I wasn't familiar with Spring but it is actually a division of ALDO shoes. Spring stocks all of the latest footwear trends for men and women at super affordable prices - the most expensive pair that I saw cost $69.99 (many of the shoes are faux leather). At these prices, I feel fine experimenting with new looks. And, if you order online, Spring offers free shipping on all orders.

A lovely Spring salesperson.

Here is the pair of fun red shoes that I picked up. Very cute and the stacked heel makes them quite comfy - a great blend of style and function.  The shoe is GRAUE and it is only $49.99.

I also couldn't resist this sassy little bootie/shootie called FALHA. It has that 1980's feel that I love. Only $59.99.

I still have a little money left on my gift card so I plan on stopping by Spring soon to pick up a handbag or a pair of flat shoes for dashing through the airport. If you're watching your budget and want a high fashion look at a low price, pop into Spring. Bye bye boring shoes!

For more information, visit www.myspringshoes.com.

The Red Carpet at Target in Harlem was SIZZLING!

A favorite of frugal fashionistas everywhere, Target has FINALLY opened their first Manhattan store in East Harlem. Target celebrated the highly anticipated store with a red-hot exclusive party on Tuesday, July 20 featuring an impressive group of famous faces including Jessica and Jerry Seinfeld, Bethenny Frankel and Selita Ebanks. Celebrities shop at Target too! Singer Kelly Rowland told me that she once purchased a little black dress by Mossimo at Target (see video). When asked what he would buy his sweetie from Target, model Tyson Beckford told me he would get the latest Maxwell CD, bubble bath, and baby oil. (see video) Who said Target wasn't romantic?

Here are a few of my favorite looks from the red carpet!

Bethenny Frankel - reality TV superstar, author and creator of the Skinny Girl Margarita looked fantastic in a red frock.

Destiny's Child superstar Kelly Rowland was flawless in a little black dress.

Victoria's Secret model Selita Ebanks left her wings at home but still looked absolutely angelic.

Jessica Seinfeld is one hot momma in this sparkly green and block mini .

  

Model Tyson Beckford, chef Marcus Samuelsson and comedian Jerry Seinfeld were all on target with their stylish looks.

In addition to stocking all of the cute clothes, travel essentials, and accessories that make shopping at Target such a penny-pinching pleasure, the East Harlem store will feature an exclusive Harlem Designers Collection - a limited edition collaboration series featuring designs from artists Isabel and Ruben Toledo, designer Stephen Burrows and chef Marcus Samuelsson.

Target in East Harlem is located at 517 East 117th Street and opens to the public on July 25.

 

Shhhh: Kate Spade Bags Up to 67% off at Row Nine

Are you looking for a stylish new bag to go with your favorite little black dress? Well, shop the Kate Spade sale at RowNine.com and you can get the finer things for less! RowNine is a free invitation only shopping site where members can save up to 80% off of luxury goods including jewelry, timepieces and accessories.

Readers of The Black Dress Traveler can skip the line and get automatic membership. Click on this link to activate your membership and to start accessing these great shopping deals!The Kate Spade sale ends on Weds. April 21 at 11pm ET. Upcoming sales include Amazing Gurhan gold jewelry, Eileen Shields shoes, and Invicta timepieces for men.

This Kate Spade bag is regularly $195 but it can be yours for $136.50. That's a 30% discount.


  This classic nylon Kate Spade bag is perfect for everyday use or travel. Row Nine has it for $139 instead of $195. A cool 29% discount.


This snazzy springy green bag is marked down 33% to $165. It is usually $245.

This timeless tote is 50% off. You can call it yours for $222 instead of $445.

There are plenty more Kate Spade deals online. Click here to sign up for RowNine.com. Happy shopping!

Ten in My Town: Elizabeth Bard's Paris

American girl goes to Paris. Meets charming French man. Falls in love with Monsieur Right and French cuisine. Lives happily ever after. Yes, this may sound like the plot of a Hollywood movie, but welcome to Elizabeth Bard’s life. Her new memoir Lunch in Paris: A Love Story with Recipes is chock full of engrossing prose and tasty meals. (Click here to read my review of the book.)

Elizabeth told moi, "there's a lot I've discovered in France - not just about effortless chic, but about how we as women can make better choices - pleasure and ambition, love and self." Although she has been busy traveling the world on her book tour, Elizabeth generously agreed to share a few of her favorite places in the City of Lights. Let her picks guide you to a great meal in Paris, or maybe even a romance of your own. Ooh la la!

 PS. Elizabeth will be making an appearance at Barnes & Noble (Tribeca, NYC) on Weds. April 7 at 7:00 pm.


To Buy the Perfect Little Black Dress – Galeries Lafayette. They have everything – and if you don’t find your little black dress, you can go shopping for a hot red lipstick underneath the breathtaking stained glass dome. If you want some color – go try one of the raw silk wrap dresses from Antoine et Lili. For browsing – I’d hit the small streets around rue du Dragon and rue de la Cherche Midi in the 6^th.

For a Night Out with the Girls - I find ice cream inspires girl talk better than alcohol – get yourself a double scoop of Berthillon on the Ile Saint Loius. Cacao Amer (bitter dark chocolate sorbet) is my favorite.

For a Romantic Dinner - Picnic on the tip of the Ile Saint Louis. 

To Take Out of Town Guests - We usually end up at L’Homme Bleu – a terrific Moroccan place, for tagine. We are lacking a favorite French place at the moment (ours changed hands a few years ago), but we often take people to Chez Denise near Les Halles – it’s one of the holdouts from the area’s market days – in fact, it used to be a brothel. The portions are huge (I love the cote de boeuf and the lapin au moutard), but save room for dessert – they make the best baba au rhum in Paris! The place is very well known, you should book – and you’ll probably be eating with an equal number of tourists and locals. 

For Something Sweet - Ladurée for macaroons (I’m a purist, so I tend to stick with vanilla, lemon, pistachio, and orange flower water (fleur d’oranger). Jean Paul Hevin for hot chocolate – it’s a quick walk from the Louvre, the tearoom is just above the shop. The hot chocolate is divine, and it’s much less crowded and touristy than Angelina’s. La Bague de Kenza – This Algerian bakery makes the best North African pastries in Paris. Choose in the boutique and have your pastries delivered to the tearoom next store.

For Cocktails  - I’m not a cocktail drinker in Paris – plant yourself at any sidewalk café with a glass of wine and watch the world go by. My neighborhood, along the Canal Saint Martin, is great for going out…if you like hipsters and men who haven’t shaved…

To Connect with Nature - The Buttes Chaumont is my favorite park in Paris. Sculpted from the ruins of one of Napoleon III’s old gypsum quarries, it has rolling hills, a man-made lake (complete with swans), and a fake waterfall.

To Connect with the Past - I’m a museum fanatic – but I prefer to have the place all to myself. The Louvre is open late on Wednesday evenings – and it’s completely empty! If you haven’t been to the Musée Jacquesmart Andre, do go – it’s the mansion of a 19^th century industrialist and his wife - much like the Frick collection in NY. Check out the hydraulic walls in the ballroom! There’s a great English Audioguide.

Where I Go to Unwind  - The market – every neighborhood has an outdoor market on a different day of the week; it’s a Paris experience that shouldn’t be missed! The markets are open from 8am-1pm, so get up early, grab a croissant and an expresso in a local café – then do your shopping for a lunchtime picnic. Ask your hotel (or local café) which days you can expect a market near you.

To Learn Something New - When I’m searching for inspiration. I usually end up at Librairie Gourmande – the best cookbook shop in Paris. Most of the cooking supply stores are on this street as well, so you can pick up some madeleine molds etc. on your way…

If you are interested in art history and design (and speak fairly high level French) – the week long summer courses at the Ecole de Louvre are a great value. The focus can be as specific as Art Deco doorknobs or as broad as “Paris under Henri IV”.

Retail Therapy, Cancun Style

 I really have been spoiled rotten during my stay here at the Cancun Caribe Park Royal Grand. This all-inclusive resort has me all aflutter. From the beach views to the bountiful buffets, Cancun Caribe Park Royal Grand gets it right. My time here has reminded me of the importance of having a comfortable home base when you travel. A good resort makes you feel like you never want to leave and puts a smile on your face when you return.

After a sweet day of noshing and lounging on the beach, the evening seemed like the perfect time for a shopping expedition. Cancun has plenty of high end shopping near the resort, everything from Louis Vuitton to an Apple store, but I wanted to find a more traditional type of market with small mom & pop stores.  I was guided to Mercado 28.  A short 20 minute cab ride to downtown Cancun, Mercado 28 sells jewelry, souvenirs, clothing and more. My plan was to buy one cute little cotton dress.  I left  with 3 flirty frocks, a pair of silver earrings, and a few bracelets. However, I did get all of these goodies for under $75 so I don't feel too guilty.

While many of the vendors are males who flirted shamelessly to make the sale (I can't remember the last time I received so many over-the-top compliments), the handmade bracelets were sold to me by a lovely 11 year old girl. Her smile won me over and before I knew it I had purchased 5 woven fabric bracelets with bead accents. Of course, I wanted to ask her a million questions about her life but it did not seem right to impose. I love my new dresses but this photo is priceless.

The No Snooki Guide to the Jersey Shore:

MTV's controversial new reality show Jersey Shore has managed to depict the southern part of the Garden State as a fist pumping bar brawl set to an endless soundtrack of house music. One of the breakout stars in this cast of self-proclaimed guidos and guidettes is Snooki. Rocking jet black hair that is as long as she is tall, Snooki is a tiny uber-tanned party animal whose signature dance move is the panty free cartwheel. Oh my.

As a fan of the Jersey Shore region, I wanted to share a few places that are the complete antithesis of what is depicted on MTV. Your chances of running into Snooki and her raucous roomies are pretty slim in the three towns listed below. Call my buddy Mario at 33 London Taxi to take you around the Jersey Shore in style in his fleet of London style black cabs. Just promise me, no fist pumping please!

Spring Lake: This bucolic town was my introduction to the Jersey Shore. A quiet enclave of Victorian mansions, Spring Lake has a 2 mile non-commercial boardwalk that is perfect for a romantic or solitary stroll by the ocean. Choose one of the many historic inns for an elegant overnight stay. Click here to read more about my first visit to Spring Lake and some of my favorite spots.

Red Bank: Red hot Red Bank boasts fine dining, shopping and A-list accommodations. Book a stylish room at the Oyster Point Hotel with a view of the Navesink River and enjoy an evening cocktail and dinner in their elegant bar. Catch a concert at the spectacular Count Basie Theatre and grab a bite to eat at RED Restaurant and Lounge - home of New Jersey's best crab cake. Shop 'til you drop at selve for custom shoes, Carter & Cavero for excellent olive oil, and SPACE for home furnishings. You might even catch The Boss, Bruce Springsteen, shopping at Jack's Music Shoppe. Click here to read about my trip to Red Bank.

Asbury Park - Home of the legendary Stony Pony and an iconic Boardwalk, Asbury Park has experienced a major renaissance. See and be seen at Watermark - a chic beachfront lounge with ocean views, plenty of eye candy, and killer cocktails. My friend Patti also recommends the "awesome vacation cuisine and great vibes" at Langosta Lounge and The ShowRoom, a "very cool art house showing classics and indie films." 

Have Dress, Will Travel: The Sofia Dress from White House/Black Market

I am always engaged in a never-ending search for the perfect little black dress. In reality, every lady needs more than one LBD because the occasion, weather, hemline, fabric, and even your mood dictates what dress is right at any particular moment in time. When it comes to travel, my dresses have to meet the following criteria: simple yet elegant, can transition from day to night, virtually wrinkle free and hand washable. Here is my latest find.

THE SOFIA from White House/Black Market
$98 (get 20% off and a free gift Thurs. Dec. 10 - Fri. Dec.11. use code 8044)
available in sizes XXS-XL

The White House/Black Market describes the dress as:

"A lovely break. A beautiful voyage. A weekend with the girls...just because. Meet Sofia. Carefree by day, chic by night...the must-pack silhouette we're wearing everywhere. Timeless knit dress tailored with a scoop neckline, 3/4-length sleeves and hidden on-seam pockets. 95% Polyester, 5% Spandex. Machine wash, cold. Imported.

• Classic stretch fit.
• Includes a removable black belt.
• Fully lined.
• Length: 33". "

 

25 Truly Terrific Holiday Gifts for Women Travelers

Are you looking for the perfect holiday gift for your favorite traveling diva? No worries, The Black Dress Traveler has assembled a great guide of stocking stuffers and statement makers to assist you! Bags, jewelry, gadgets, books, clothing, toiletries and more are all featured in my comprehensive round-up of gifts that are just right for the holiday and everyday. Best of all, most items are under $100 and as low as $7.95. With prices like that, why not spoil yourself too? Happy Holidays!

Gadgets and Gear

RCA Small Wonder EZ209HD Available for $88.35 on Amazon.
Santa baby, please put a snazzy RCA Small Wonder under the tree for me! Add this to your gift list so your favorite traveler won’t have to lug around bulky video equipment to capture precious vacation memories. At about half an inch thick, the RCA Small wonder fits perfectly in a purse but is still big on features, including a two-inch, full color LCD display and direct YouTube uploading. Don’t let the point and shoot simplicity fool you – the RCA Small Wonder records in various modes, including HD.

X Shot 2.0
$29.95
Ditch the bulky tripod! The X Shot 2.0 telescopic camera extender collapses to 9 inches and extends to more than 3 feet. Say bye bye to awkward photos from doing the single arm stretch because the X Shot 2.0 attaches to any compact digital camera or hand-held video camera so that the photographer can be in the picture too. The X Shot is a great gift for the solo traveler – no more handing your camera to strangers and asking them to take a picture.

Wordlock Luggage Lock
$9.99
These Travel Sentry® Approved locks keep bags secure and eliminate the need to carry a key or memorize a numerical combination. Just pick a four-letter word that’s easy to remember (might I suggest DIVA?), lock your bag, and go!

Train Reaction Device
Two for $19.95
This easy-to-use gadget quickly connects two pieces of wheeled luggage, making it much easier to maneuver bulky bags.

Fab Bags & Cool Cases

Port.a.Bra
$54.95
No more crushed bras! Keep your pricey brassieres in mint condition by packing them in the Portabra. Made of fine Thai silk and lined in satin, each case holds up to 6 bras in sizes A-C cups and some D’s. The Portabra folds flat and has two interior pockets for lingerie and hosiery.

The Rack Trap
$7.95 - $19.95
The Rack Trap is a one-size-fits-all bra pocket that holds all your essentials safely and conveniently in your bra. The RackTrap makes it easy to keep your license, credit card, boarding pass and cash safe when you are going through airport security or anytime you want to keep these items really close to you. Celebrity fans include Dolly Parton. Need I say more?

TraveLite Tote
$70
Weighing in at only 8 oz. and made of 100% recycled material, the TraveLite Tote is super sturdy and spacious. Fitting virtually everything, including a laptop computer, the TraveLite tote keeps you organized with plenty of pockets and zippers.





Locher’s Paris Small Purse
$54
These dainty little purses made from old French fabric look perfectly lady like. Look again. These sweet bags by Lohrer’s Paris can be customized with your choice of nine naughty sayings such as, “Only to be used on shoes, clothes and alcohol”, and “So many boys, so little time.” Locher’s also makes delightful lipstick and Iphone cases.

GIVE Train Case
$65 (originally $130)
Made of stain resistant microfiber, this elegant train case by GIVE will keep your favorite jetsetter stylishly organized. GIVE has a strong celebrity following, including Jessica Alba and Sheryl Crow. Fashion forward and altruistic, GIVE annually donates 10% of their net profits to charities. This is a gift that keeps giving!

Rojeti Travel Laundry Bag
$19.95. For a limited time, get a set of 2 for $18.49. The Rojeti Laundry Bag is a great and eco-friendly alternative to disposable plastic laundry bags. Made of water resistant nylon, this reusable bag is easy to use: just fill it with your dirty clothes, zip it up, and pack it in your suitcase.

Glam & Gorgeous

ZULUGRASS Necklaces by the Leakey Collection
$12.95 - $39.95
The Leakey Collection, founded in 2002 by Katy and Philip Leakey, is one of my favorite finds for the holiday season and anytime! Philip is the son of legendary paleo-anthropologists Drs. Louis and Mary Leakey and Katy is an artist and a designer.

Based in The Rift Valley, Kenya, East Africa, The Leakey Collection includes jewelry and home accessories made of natural elements such as fallen wood, grass and porcelain. The items are unique, protect the environment and provide economic opportunity to the local communities.

Zulugrass, the flagship item of the collection, is handcrafted by Masaai women of Kenya. Sold in individual or multistrands, Zulugrass is both earthy and modern. These travel friendly pieces can be combined in endless beautiful combinations. Truly a beautiful gift!

Cambodian Silk Scarf from Global Goods Partners
$44
The lucky recipient of this elegant silk scarf will not only appreciate the subtle Khmer Flower pattern but will feel an extra sense of warmth knowing that your purchase of this gift benefits those living with HIV and AIDS in the Stung Treng Women's Development Center in Cambodia. In fact, all Global Goods products are fair trade, eco-conscious, and help to build sustainable communities.

SKINN Face in a Case – The Luxe Collection
$42.50
This ultra portable and elegant collection from SKINN by Dimitri James has everything a traveling lady needs for a complete make-up application. The Face in a Case Luxe Collection includes, blush / translucent powder, concealer, eyeliner, eyeshadows, lip color, and lip gloss. The formulations  are all anti-aging and talc-free treatment colors designed to create a beautiful face at any age. Purchased separately these items would cost easily over $200!

Neero & Ana Satin Hydration Therapy Pillow Cases
Prices start at $29.99
The Black Dress Traveler almost never lets my face fall asleep on a pillow that is not cloaked in a Neero & Ana case. I use these fantastic cases at home and always pack them when I travel. They really are a beauty treatment because unlike cotton pillowcases that suck the moisture right out of your skin and hair, Neero & Ana cases are made of botanical satin that keep your precious face and tresses hydrated.

Crazy Sticks - ShanghaiJava Solid Perfume Gift Set by Crazylibellule & The Poppies
$41.00
Eliminating the need to worry about spillage, breakage, and dreaded confiscation, solid perfume sticks are great for travel. The ShanghaiJava Gift Set from high end Parisian parfumerie Crazylibellule and The Poppies contains 3 solid perfume sticks in the sensual scents of Ananas Impérial, Musc & Patchouli, and Lilas Spiritual.

The Jet Setter from Blooming Lotus
$50
This extraordinary hand-dyed silk bag was created exclusively for Blooming Lotus by noted fabric designer Joscelyn Himes. Her designs have been used in the collections of Donna Karan and Vera Wang. Designed using the Shibori dyeing technique, each unique bag is filled with TSA approved travel sizes of aromatherapy mister, body lather, luminous lotion and a full sized lip conditioner. Once you reach your destination, the bag can also be used as an elegant evening purse.

Chic & Comfy Clothes

Flingz Thongs
$22.50 for the weekender three pack. Looking for a comfortable pair of travel-friendly dainties that won’t show a pantyline?Just fling a pair of Flingz™ thongs into your bag. Made from 5% elastane and 95% cotton (which is biodegradable), Flingz are packaged in two-by three-inch recyclable bags that tuck discreetly into a clutch, gym bag or carry-on. Flingz make a great stocking stuffer. Available in nude, black or cotton candy pink.

NITESWEATZ – Moisture Wicking sleepwear
Pant & tee set is $106
NITESWEATZ sleep apparel is not just for women dealing with biological changes that increase body temperature. Just imagine how great it would be to have on moisture wicking sleepwear if you are spending the night in a room that is hot and sticky. This simple yet stylish pant and tee set can even be worn outside the bedroom and will keep you in chic comfort on a long flight. NITESWEATZ has a great collection of nightgowns, daywear, underwear and more!

Footzyrolls
$25–$30
Rollable and foldable Footzyrolls are a travel must! Stop torturing your feet and ruining your expensive shoes by walking long distances in high heels. The brainchild of sisters Jenifer and Sarah Caplan, Footzyrolls make it easy to always have a comfy pair of shoes with you. Each set of Footzyrolls is comprised of 3 pieces – 1 pair of Footzyrolls, 1 Footzypouch, and 1 Footzybag. Simply pack Footzyrolls (in Footzypouch) in your bag of choice, when your feet start to ache or you need to race to your flight, place your shoes in the Footzybag and put on your comfy and cute Footzyrolls. Footyrolls are available in several colors and are waterproof with a skid proof sole.

MicciMicci Travel Treads
$24.95
Keep a pair of Treads in your purse and slip them on when you want to protect your tootsies on the plane and other dubious surfaces. Treads are foldable, washable, and are made of stretchy, durable spandex with a foam insole and non-slip tread.

Keep Fit

City Running Tours
$60 per person for the first six miles and $6 per person for each mile after that. Discounts for groups of four or more.

Keeping up my exercise routine is important to me when I travel but I tend to rush through my workout so I can get out and explore. Thanks to City Running Tours, travelers no longer have to choose between fitness and sightseeing. Buy your favorite fitness minded traveler a City Running Tours gift certificate and they can jog right by the boring treadmill and run outdoors. Available in Austin, Charleston, Chicago, New York and Washington DC., City Running Tours provides travelers with a guide that meets them at the hotel. While running together, the guide gives a tour and shares local history and culture. The guide returns the traveler to the hotel once the run is complete. City Running Tours provides a safe option for women who wish to run in an unfamiliar city. 10% of the total fee is donated to St. Jude Children’s Hospital.

Great Reads

100 Places in Italy Every Woman Should Go
by Susan Van Allen
$18.95
A great gift for the armchair traveler or a friend who is Italy bound, Susan Van Allen's book is a girl friendly guide to Italy’s many pleasures. Discover the palace where Audrey Hepburn lived in Roman Holiday, spas for pampering, beaches for relaxing, culinary adventures and more!




Paris Movie Walks: Ten Guided Tours Through The City of Lights! Camera! Action!
by Michael Schurmann 
$15.95
Francophiles and movie buffs will go gaga for Michael Schurmann's in-depth guide to Paris’s cinematic treasures. From An American in Paris to Amelie, Paris Movie Walks contains 10 different walking tours that offer an intriguing and cost-effective way to explore the City of Lights.

Shopping in Marrakech
by Susan Simon and with photos by Nally Bellati
$18.95 (at press time the book was being offered at a 25% discount for $14.21.)
The girls of Sex and the City have been filming in Marrakech and you just know those divas are shopping up a storm! Susan Simon’s helpful book is a must for any gal planning a trip to this legendary Moroccan city. Learn how to choose among the thousands of shops, stores, and souk stalls and how to even find them in this labyrinthine city, where street names and addresses seldom appear on the city map.

Shoo, Jimmy Choo: The Modern Girl's Guide to Spending Less & Saving More
$14.95
Even budget vacations require money! Get your favorite travel dreaming but cash challenged diva on the right financial track with Shoo, Jimmy Choo. Written by Catey Hill, the money editor for the New York Daily News online, Shoo, Jimmy Choo offers great advice that will help ladies get out of debt and on the road to financial prosperity and their dream vacation! The title of the book was inspired by the famous Sex and the City episode where Carrie realizes that she couldn’t afford to buy her apartment because she spent all of her money on designer shoes.

Global Chic: Affordable Luxuries from Iman

 This dreary day in New York City gave me the perfect excuse to spend a little time indoors watching that hilarious haute mess of a talk show known as The Wendy Williams Show.

Wendy's guest today was the gorgeous supermodel and mogul Iman. This ageless diva was promoting her Global Chic line of clothing, shoes, handbags, and accessories that are sold exclusively on HSN. I'm pretty familiar with Iman's cosmetics line but really did not know much about her other products. 

Well, I have to say that several of the Global Chic items caught my eye. Best of all, nothing is over $100 and several items have very low clearance prices. HSN also has flexible pricing and many of the goodies can be divided into 2 or 3 payments. These price points make it even easier to follow Iman's advice to "think globally, live fashionably". Here are a few pieces that really stood out for me.

   Handbeaded Parisian Clutch ($69.95) - Love the bold colors. This would be great for an evening out and adding some wow to a little black dress or even blue jeans.  

Parisian Style Open & Airy Braided Cuff (59.95) - Simply elegant! 

 

Venetian Style Multi-Faceted Stretch Bracelet ($54.95) - Playful and flirty. 

Pave Wrapped Stone Necklace ($64.95) - Looks very expensive but only you will know!

Fab Bag: Radley London's Westbourne Bucket Tote

While the perfect little black dress always seems to find me, the search for the perfect bag is never ending. Why is it so darn hard to find a stylish, elegant, roomy tote with plenty of compartments that can transition effortlessly from the daily commute to jet-setting?

Could I have found my dream bag in the Westbourne Bucket Tote by Radley London?  Crafted from the finest quality leather and available in black, tan and pink, the Westbourne is described as "designed for women that like to carry their life in their handbags." Yep, that would be me. I am already picturing my Blackberry, magazines, Metrocard, airline tickets, makeup bag, snacks, and water all neatly organized in the Westbourne. The bag is a bit of a splurge at $395 but the craftsmanship and classic style make it a smart investment.

Radley's founder, Lowell Harder, is also the creative director and she takes her bags very seriously! Lowell originally studied to be an architect but her interest in handbags evolved and she began creating bags that were both practical and beautiful. Each bag also has an element of surprise, or what Radley calls "eccentric Englishness," that manifests itself in colorful linings and accents. Fabulous!

In the USA, you can purchase Radley London at major retailers in several states and at their first store on this side of the pond in Roosevelt Field Mall in Garden City, New York.

To learn more, visit www.radleylondon.com.  

Ten in My Town: Alva Johnson's Atlanta

From where to buy the perfect little black dress to the best spot for a romantic dinner, reaching out to local ladies with a zest for life is one of the best ways to get the inside scoop on a destination. Ten in My Town asks savvy ladies to name their top ten picks for the places to see and be seen in their hometowns. Our first stop is the land of juicy peaches, sweet tea, spicy reality TV drama queens, and so much more – Atlanta! Glamorous Georgia girl and globetrotter Alva Johnson is our guide to this sexy southern city.

Alva Johnson
Co-Founder, Independent Champagne and Sparkling Wine Invitational
www.icswi2010.com

Whether staffing 22,000 temporary employees for the Olympic Games, training personal assistants for celebrities such as Vera Wang and The Dave Matthews Band, or planning large scale events in Brazil and Germany; Alva Johnson is the consummate planning professional. As the co-founder of the Independent Champagne and Sparkling Wine Invitational (ICSWI), which will take place in New Orleans in April 2010, Alva brings the same energy and enthusiasm to bubbles that she’s used to ignite crowds worldwide. Alva passionately believes champagne isn’t just for special occasions – it’s the ultimate celebration of life! Let Alva's Ten in My Town picks inspire you on your next trip to Atlanta.  

1. To Buy the Perfect Little Black Dress - I love to shop at Fa'brik in Buckhead or Wish in Little 5 points. Both have sexy yet eclectic styles. Fa'brik is more designer driven while Wish has more fashion-forward options.

2. For a Night Out with the Girls - The St. Regis Hotel Bar- great crowd, cool atmosphere...after that possibly Club Opera or The Cheetah (this IS Atlanta).

3. For a Romantic Dinner - Canoe or Joel. Canoe when I want to see the Chattahootchie River or Joel when I want great French food and sexy atmosphere. 

4. To Take Out of Town Guests - my favorite local place by my home, Bistro VG's (formerly Van Gogh's). I live in the suburbs, 45min from the city, so I take out of towners to my favorite place by my home.

5. For Something Sweet- Bistro VG's again or Krispy Kreme. Bistro VG's for great crepes and homemade sorbets. Krispy Kreme for those days I do not have to fit into my little black dress.

6. For Cocktails - Drinkshop in The W Hotel Downtown or my home is pretty infamous for Champagne gatherings.

7. To Connect with Nature - my backyard...one of the great things about living in the suburbs is having a large backyard, a lake across the street, and a brook flowing in my back yard. My backyard is a haven for butterflies, they congregate in my yard and I love to step out of my stilettos and just be.

8. To Connect with the Past - Auburn Ave. in Atlanta. This is a historical street which has the Martin Luther King Center and Ebenezer Baptist Church.

9. Where I Go to Unwind - to the kitchen. I love to cook and naturally I have lots of great wine and champagne at my home, so my kitchen is a great source of relaxation. I pop a bottle of champagne, and enjoy it while I create a feast. My children love to cook with me so I buy them sparkling grape juice which makes them feel "fancy."

10. To Learn Something New- Easy one- the library, any library, usually the library at Crabapple Middle School (my son's school). I have always been an avid reader, a true lover of books, and any time I can spend in the library is a happy moment for me. I go to my son's school library without him knowing until he sees me in the hallway or the librarian tells him I've been there for hours.