The Black Dress Traveler

Black Dress Beauty: Halle Berry

Shapely thespian Halle Berry rocked basic black with a sexy twist at the red carpet premiere of Wolverine. Sheer paneling added a dash of naughty to this va va voom black cocktail dress by French designer Herve L. Leroux. Ms. Berry kept her look sleek and elegant with minimal accessories and strappy sandals. Bravo Ms. Berry, you are a black dress beauty!

 

Black Dress Traveler Quoted in How to Blend in When Traveling (NY Daily News)

The New York Daily News recently ran a great article on how to NOT stand out from the crowd when traveling. The Black Dress Traveler was honored to be quoted in this fun and very useful story. 

Click here to read the article and get some great tips on everything from what to wear and how to get better service when dining out.

Animal Fair Guides You and Your Pooch to the Perfect Vacation!

The Black Dress Traveler was delighted to contribute to the most recent travel issue of Animal Fair - the premier lifestyle magazine and website for animal lovers. Acclaimed actor Mickey Rourke is on the cover with his dearly departed Chihuahua Loki. 

I had a great time writing my  article on Savannah. During my trip, I met the founder of Oliver Bentley's Barking Bakery and, in the name of research, I even tasted their signature organic dog biscuits! Savannah is a very dog friendly city and my article features many of the best places in town to pamper your canine companion from hotels to bars.  Other destinations featured in the Animal Fair travel issue include Palm Springs, Cleveland, Miami, and New Orleans. In addition, to Mickey Rourke; Kelly Killoren Bensimon, Kyra Sedgwick, Ashanti, and Bridget Marquardt are also profiled with their dogs. In case you're wondering, the Black Dress Traveler does not have a dog but my Betta fish Benicio was happy to pose for a photo!

Animal Fair can be purchased at Barnes & Noble.

Swine Flu Outbreak Survey

What do you think of the media coverage of the Swine Flu Outbreak? Take a moment to answer our one question survey.

Click Here to take survey

Here are the results so far to the question how would you describe media coverage of the swine flu outbreak:

0% - Informative and makes me feel like the situation is under control.

85.7% - Makes me wonder if anyone really knows what the heck is going on.

14.3% - I'm scared and won't be traveling. Shoot, I won't leave the house.

Little Black Travel Diary: Lisa Price (Founder, Carol's Daughter)

Lisa Price

www.carolsdaughter.com

 

Sweet Honey Dip Chocolate Brown Sugah Scrub, Mango Melange Body Butter, Black Vanilla Hair Smoothie; Carol's Daughter sweet hair and skincare concoctions are fragrant proof that food is not the only tasty creation to come out of a kitchen. Lisa Price, the founder and president of Carol's Daughter started the company in 1992 with $100 in her Brooklyn kitchen. Named lovingly after her mother, today Carol's Daughter has outgrown Lisa's kitchen and is a multi-million dollar company with stores throughout the United States, including the flagship store on Harlem's legendary 125th Street.

Fragrant, luxurious, effective, and affordable, Carol's Daughter has a loyal customer base and a devoted celebrity clientele. Actress Jada Pinkett-Smith and singer Mary J. Blige are such big fans of Carol's Daughter that they even became investors in the company. Recently, Mary took a little break from singing to whip up a sea salt scrub with Lisa on the Rachel Ray show. Jada said, "I attribute my long, beautiful hair to Lisa's Hair Elixir and Hair Balm." With such rave reviews, success is very sweet indeed for Lisa Price and Carol's Daughter.

Let's peek inside The Little Black Travel Diary of Lisa Price!

I never travel without Carol's Daughter Hair Milk, my must have hair product.

My favorite destination is Miami, Florida– even if just for a moment. As soon as I get a sense of the sun, I’m immediately relaxed.

The taste of lychee reminds me of Costa Rica.

My favorite traveling companion is my husband, Gordon. He is adventurous and I am not, so I always see new things and do new things. I love to travel with my best friend.

Traveling alone is great at times. I travel for business and while I do miss my family, I like to be in the hotel room alone with the remote. No dishes or laundry to do.

I dream of visiting Bali.

A film, book, or song that awakens my wanderlust is “Like Water For Chocolate.”

My favorite traveling outfit is a comfortable, but stylish pair of knit pants and a soft knit wrap.

My most unforgettable traveling experience was in Costa Rica and Beach #3 in Manuel Antonio State Park.  Breathtaking!!!

When I have been away from home for a long time, the thing I miss the most is the sounds of my children.

If I could travel back in time, I would go to Ancient Egypt.

My travel icon is Joy Mangano of HSN (Home Shopping Network.)

My must have beauty product when traveling is Carol's Daughter Hair Milk.

My words of travel wisdom are be true to who you are wherever you are and make the most of your time.

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Way to Go: Whoopi Goldberg Tackles Fear of Flying

Award-winning actress and comedian Whoopi Goldberg is absolutely fearless when it comes to speaking her mind on and off The View but flying the friendly skies was a no-no for this tough diva. In fact, Goldberg's fear of flying (aviophobia) was so intense that for the past 13 years she has only traveled in her super luxury tour bus or sailed on the QE2.  Swanky, yes, but still limiting.

But Whoopi recently looked fear in the face and took a transatlantic flight to London to observe and consult on the rehearsals for the stage version of her hit film Sister Act. She prepared for the flight by participating in Virgin Atlantics's "Flying Without Fear" course. The Virgin program is not yet available in the United States but it implements Thought Field Therapies invented by Dr. Roger Callahan. Visit Dr. Callahan's website for a free guide on techniques to tackle the fear of flying and other phobias.

Traveling on a private jet, Whoopi was accompanied by a doctor who could calm her down with sedatives but she says that she didn't need it. She told Page Six."I'm kinda proud." And best of all, Whoopi plans on flying again, "I'm going to fly to the West Coast to surprise my daughter." Way to go Whoopi! You can count on The Black Dress Traveler to treat you to a cocktail if we are ever on a flight together. (wishful thinking on my part since Whoopi flies on private jets and I look for bargains!)

Here is a video clip of Whoopi talking about the roots of her fear (she saw a mid-air collision in 1978) and her Flying Without Fear treatment.

Little Black Travel Diary: Maria Pinto (Fashion Designer)

Maria Pinto

 

www.mariapinto.com

Chances are that if you've gazed longingly at an ensemble worn by First Lady Michelle Obama, Oprah Winfrey, Gayle King, Brooke Shields or Susan Sarandon and said, "I want that NOW", it was designed by Maria Pinto. Known for her unique ability to meld artisanal textiles from around the world with modern American design, Maria's designs are wearable classics with an edge that exude confidence and sophistication.  Not just for celebrities, Maria creates tailored silhouettes that fit into a variety of lifestyles. Maria Pinto's collections have been featured in Vogue, Elle, InStyle, Harper's Bazaar, Town & Country and many other prominent fashion publications.

An alumna of Chicago’s School of the Art Institute, Pinto also attended New York's Parson’s School of Design and the Fashion Institute of Technology. Soon after graduation she landed a coveted position working for legendary designer Geoffrey Beene. Maria has received many prestigious design and fashion accolades throughout her career, including the Best of Fashion Award from Chicago Magazine (2000); and the Gold Coast Fashion Award, previously won by Anne Klein, Donna Karan and Bill Blass (1998).  In 2009, Maria Pinto will receive the Legend of Fashion Award from the School of the Art Institute. The Maria Pinto Collection is available at her flagship store in Chicago, Saks Fifth Avenue, Barney’s New York, Takashimaya and other fine boutiques across the country. 

Let's peek inside the Little Black Travel Diary of Maria Pinto!

 

My first memory of traveling is with my first great love Bill.

I never travel without a candle, the scent reminds me of home.

My favorite destination is Bali.

The taste of Jasmine tea reminds me of Bangkok.

My favorite traveling companion is my best friend, Mr. Coe.

Traveling alone can be very inspirational, but choosing the right destination is key. It can create many opportunities for self discovery.

I dream of visiting India.

A film, book, or song that awakens my wanderlust is my favorite film, In The Mood For Love, by Wong Kar Wai.

My favorite traveling outfit is depending on the weather and the destination (usually Chicago to New York) my black Morgan leather coat with a cashmere wrap from my own collection, and a pair of jeans.

My most unforgettable traveling experience was after a struggle to get there, waking up Sunday morning in Hong Kong and experiencing the scent of incense throughout the city.

When I have been away from home for a long time, the thing I miss the most is my two adorable cats.

If I could travel back in time, I would go to Egypt and watch the pyramids being built.

My travel icon is Karen Blixen.

My must have beauty product when traveling is Smith’s Rosebud Salve, I can’t live without it.

 

My words of travel wisdom are always be prepared, for anything! Even if it sometimes leads to perpetual over packing. But you never know when your casual weekend trip might turn dressy!

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Giveaway: Luxe FACE Travel Kit from Om Aroma & Co.

 

Pamper your face with Champagne, Caviar, & Truffles -3 Step Organic Skincare System^TM, Enter for your chance to win the Luxe FACE Travel Kit from Om Aroma & Co. ($30 retail value).  The Luxe Face Kit won the 2008 Beauty Olympics  - Best 3 Step System. The Luxe FACE Travel Kit meets airplane carry on guidelines and includes the following.

• Elixir de Beaute
• Creme Luxe 1, or Creme Luxe 2, or Creme Luxe 3
• Extrait de Caviar

Supply should last approximately 5 to 10 days.

"Sexy Green Has Arrived™" with Om Aroma & Co. -  luxury organics that are gentle on the skin and the planet.  They take ultra-sensual ingredients—Caviar, Champagne, Truffles, and Chardonnay—and fuse them with organic ingredients to create products that are deliciously sexy and naturally great for the skin. 

Real Deal: $89 Hotel Rooms at San Francisco's 4 Star Hotel Adagio

Darlings, leave your heart in San Francisco but not all of your hard earned money!

Hotel Adagio, a luxury boutique hotel with 171 guest rooms in San Francisco’s theater district, is offering special spring time rates starting at $89. Conveniently located just off Union Square, the Adagio is also home to Cortez Restaurant and Bar. Cortez's creative Mediterranean cuisine was recognized in the 2008 Michelin Guide, recently received a Three Star review from San Francisco restaurant critic Michael Bauer (San Francisco Chronicle) and was named one of the "66 Hottest New Restaurants in the World" in the May 2007 edition of Condé Nast Traveler Magazine. 

Hotel Adagio is located at 550 Geary Street. 

This package can be booked online by visiting the website at www.jdvhotels.com/adagio, using the code 89RATE.

 

New Essential: Jewelry Bags for Travel by Katie James

Toss away those ill-designed jewelry rolls and Ziplock bags - these snazzy bags by Katie James are a stylish and practical way to store and protect your baubles.  Made from 100% raw silk dupioni and lined in a soft polka dot cotton pique, the interior of the bags keeps your gems secure with 5 square elastic pockets, 3 earring straps, and 2 ring/necklace straps. This precious little bundle closes securely with a drawstring and the silk fabric makes these bags elegant and durable.

When asked what inspired her unique design Katie said, "I love organizing things. I made my first tool to organize jewelry when I was about 13 or so, out of cardboard. It was a cardboard post to stick earrings into. These travel jewelry bags were developed after an owner of a boutique expressed the desire for them. I knew there were a lot of jewelry bags out there in the world, but none with the snap ring loop closure (I like knowing my rings are safe), nor could you hang earrings on the outside. I'm very visual. Out of sight is out of mind, so I wanted to be able to see some of my pieces."

In addition to the jewelry bags, Katie James also sells sexy silk sleep masks that make it easier to catch some zzz's in style on planes, trains or buses.

Enter code JDSPRING20 to get 20% off your travel jewelry bag purchase at www.katie-james.com.

Better Off Red: Serious Shopping in Red Bank, New Jersey

Movie buffs may know Red Bank as the slacker chic setting for several of Kevin Smith's films (Dogma, Chasing Amy) but this Jersey Shore jewel has much more to offer. Fabulous boutiques, top-notch accommodations and simply beautiful surroundings make Red Bank a perfect choice for a blissful escape and some serious retail therapy.  

Getting There

Red Bank is a hop, skip and train ride away from New York City. Just catch New Jersey Transit at Penn Station directly to Red Bank. Travel time on the train is between 72-89 minutes depending on the time of day. An off-peak round trip ticket is $20. 

However, to really get into a vacation state of mind, the SeaStreak is the best way to travel. Skip the chaos of Penn Station and catch the SeaStreak Ferry at Pier 11/ Wall Street or at 35th Street and the East River. Why feel cooped up in a train car when you can cruise along the water and enjoy the view of the city slipping away.  And, did I mention that they sell cold beers and snacks on board? At $40 for an adult round trip ticket, the SeaStreak is a bit more expensive than the train. However, the ferry is faster and much more fun! When you get off the SeaStreak at Atlantic Highlands, you will feel like you've landed in a small New England town. 

 

Travel in style with 33 London Taxi.

Call ahead to let 33 London Taxi know when your ferry arrives and the world's most charming taxi driver, Mario Patino, will be waiting for you at the end of the dock with a smile and an open door to his very chic London style black cab. Of course, Mario can't be everywhere, and he has other delightful drivers to transport passengers around in cars from 33 London's fleet of black and silver taxis.  You'll feel a bit like an Austin Powers' femme-bot being driven around town in this spacious taxi that comfortably seats five plus luggage. Yeah baby! 

Where to Stay

 

Room at the Oyster Point Hotel.

The Navesink River is one of Red Bank's most charming attributes so a room with a view is a must.  The Oyster Point Hotel and Molly Pitcher Inn are two very different but equally excellent options. Both properties are owned by the JP Barry Hospitality Group, a family run business. Built in 1928, the Molly Pitcher Inn is a stately brick building with national landmark status and a Five Star Diamond Award recipient. Exuding old world charm, the Molly Pitcher Inn has first class amenities including a mahogany bar that is reminiscent of the bar at the St. Regis in NYC with the breathtaking bonus of a river view.  Since 1996, the Inn's Sunday brunch has won the Reader's Choice Award for Best Brunch. 

Offering the same top-of-the line service as the Molly Pitcher Inn but in a more contemporary setting, the Oyster Point Hotel was my home away from home in Red Bank.  Manhattan was out of sight and out of mind during my stay. Modern but cozy, the Oyster Point has been extensively redesigned with upscale contemporary furnishings and other refurbishments. Their new atrium is the perfect spot to enjoy sunset cocktails and a tasty bite to eat.

Retail Therapy

 

Chic and Sexy Coco Pari Boutique.

No sales tax on clothing makes New Jersey a shopper's delight and Red Bank's great selection of stores is retail heaven. From high end couture to funky and affordable, just stroll along Broad Street for an impressive and eclectic collection of shops.  Major retailers Tiffany & Co and Duxiana have a presence in Red Bank, and the town even has their own department store - Garmany. However, the smaller boutiques really make Red Bank shopping something special.  

A super sexy shoe from selve.

selve: Why buy shoes off the rack? At Selve you can treat your tootsies to a made-to-measure pair of bespoke footwear. Your feet are scanned to make sure you get the proper fit because, more likely than not, your left and right foot differ slightly in size. They can even measure your calves for a perfect fitting pair of boots. Once the scanning is done the fun begins! You can go as conservative or as crazy as you want when choosing the color of the leather and heel height.  You can even customize a matching handbag. Men's shoes are also available. Headquartered in Munich with a second store in London, the Red Bank store is Selve's first location in the U.S. Further proof of Red Bank's position as a major fashion player.

Coco Pari: If you love your big labels, Coco Pari is the store for you. Recently Voted Best Boutique in New Jersey (New Jersey Monthly Magazine), this is a must visit destination for an impressive selection of designers including Jimmy Choo, Versace, Diane von Furstenberg, Christian Louboutin, and Roberto Cavalli. Of course, these big names come with a big price tag but Coco Pari offers some amazing deals in their sales basement. Need a last minute dress for a night out on the town? Coco Pari is open until 11:00 pm on Friday and Saturday nights.

Wisteria: Located in the same space as Coco Pari, Wisteria is an oasis for high end skin care, fragrance, cosmetics and accessories.  Laura Mercier, La Mer, Creed, Natura Bisse, Sonya Dakar, Chantecaille and Nars are all sold at Wisteria.  As hard as I tried, I was too weak to walk away from a cute Kooba clutch at 20% off.

The Bee's Knees: Unassuming from the outside, The Bee's Knees surprised me with their selection of quality labels and pretty frocks. Trina Turk, Tibi, Tory Burch and Lilly Pulitzer aplenty filled the racks at this charming little store.  The 50% off rack had some great designer finds.

4B:  Owned by a former Los Angeles stylist, 4B is a small space with big style. Cynthia Vincent and Tory Burch filled the racks along with stylish handbags, colorful scarves and statement making jewelry.

Everything you need to make your place look great at Space Interiors.

Space Interiors: Looking to spruce up your home? Space offers interior design services and sells a modern and elegant array of furnishings and home accessories - including some really amazing pillows. In fact, SPACE worked with the Oyster Point Hotel on their new interiors.

Funk & Standard Variety Store:  The self-proclaimed "most bad ass store in town", Funk & Standard is the place to go for affordable bohemian chic dresses, retro t-shirts, and tchotchkes.

Jack's Music Shoppe: An old fashioned music store like Jack's is a breath of fresh air. The hours can slip by browsing through their racks of CD's and even vinyl. The latest new releases in all genres can be found at Jack's along with a bounty of used cd's. Sheet music and instruments are also available. Locals tell me that everyone's favorite Jersey boy, Bruce Springsteen, often shops here. Born to run and born to shop!

Jay and Silent Bob's Secret Stash: You can't mention Red Bank without mentioning Jay and Silent Bob. This is the place to shop for comics and merchandise from Kevin Smith's films. Doesn't everyone need a set of Mallrats "inaction" figures?

Ginger's Salon and Day Spa: End your day of shopping with some pampering at Red Bank's first day spa. Facials, manicures, pedicures, massages, hair styling and everything you need to feel refreshed and rejuvenated are offered at Ginger's. 

Beyond Shopping

 

Sunrise over the Navesink River from my room at the Oyster Point Hotel.

Of course, there is much more to Red Bank than clothing boutiques. The town has numerous art galleries, antique shops, and eateries. The recently renovated Count Basie Theater consistently draws some of the biggest acts in music and I will be heading back to Red Bank in a few weeks to see jazz musician Chris Botti perform. However, I know that even the gorgeous and talented Mr. Botti can't compete with the simple beauty of waking up early and watching the sun rise over the Navesink River.

To learn more about all there is to eat, see and do in Red Bank, New Jersey visit www.onlyoneredbank.com.

Little Black Travel Diary: Sarina Jain (The Jane Fonda of India)

Sarina Jain

 

www.sarinajain.com

 

 

America's first cross-cultural fitness superstar, the irrepressible Sarina Jain is the creator of the high-energy and non-stop fun Masala Bhangra Workout. Masala means spicy in Hindi and Bhangra is a traditional folk dance from the northern state of Punjab, India. Known as the Jane Fonda of India, Sarina's unique and effective cardiovascular workout allows people from all backgrounds to experience a taste of Bollywood by modernizing traditional Bhangra steps.  A regular guest on NBC's Today Show and other major media, Sarina inspires even the most committed couch potato to get moving.  The Masala Bhangra workout is taught throughout the United States by Serena and her trained instructors.  Anyone can have a Bollywood workout at home with a Masala Bhangra DVD. Let's peek inside the Little Black Travel Diary of Sarina Jain!  

 

 

My first memory of traveling is when my family and I went to India when we were little. I absolutely loved it because I was visiting my family and we had so much fun. 

I never travel without a good book to read.  

 

My favorite destination is oye! Too many!!! India, Greece, Spain, all of Europe.

 

The taste of hot fresh street food reminds me of Amritsar, Punjab India.

 

My favorite traveling companion is my sister. Even though we fight, we laugh so hard when we travel together.

 

Traveling alone is fun.  You learn a lot about yourself.  However, I would rather travel with my sister or a partner.

 

I dream of visiting the Middle East.  I want to go there to see how people live because they also have real lives as well and some of the most beautiful as well.

 

A film, book, or song that awakens my wanderlust is A Fine Line by Rohinton Mistry.

 

My favorite traveling outfit is either my black dress or my white Nike jump suit.

 

My most unforgettable traveling experience was traveling to Spain on my own for 5 months.

When I have been away from home for a long time, the thing I miss the most is the warmth my house has to offer.

 

If I could travel back in time, I would go to Rajasthan, back in the day, to meet the Queens and Kings of that time.  I would want to meet the Rajas!

My travel icon is:  I love hearing about Angelina Jolie and her travel experiences.  I want to join her in her adventures.

 

My must have beauty product when traveling is Carmex lip balm.

 

My words of travel wisdom are Go with the flow, explore different cultures and appreciate everything.  

PS. A few weeks ago The Black Dress Traveler got my Bollywood groove going at Sarina's Masala Bhangra Workout class at Alvin Ailey. It was simply amazing! Just picture 120 New Yorkers of all  ages, sizes, and cultures doing a Bollywood dance off. Awesome!

Picture This: Prince Charles Boogies in Brazil

Manaus, Brazil Photo: Chris Jackson/Getty Images Mar 14, 2009

Take a Virtual Getaway: Life.com Opens Up a World of Amazing Photos

When I was a little girl, I just loved getting lost in the amazing photos in Life Magazine. In 2007, the print magazine went out of business for the third time in 70 years but the new Life.com website makes it possible to reunite with some of your favorite photos and discover new ones. "Your world in pictures" is the very appropriate tagline for this online treasure chest of millions of photos that can be browsed for FREE!

Life.com is a partnership with Getty Images and more than 3,000 new photos are added everyday. The site is divided into five sections; news, celebrity, travel, animals and sports. You can also search for your favorite pictures. I typed "Barcelona" into the search box and the site retrieved an impressive 16,394 results. The site also features collections of photos and in the travel section you can peruse Chile: Naturally Beautiful, World's Most Expensive Cities, Charles and Camilla's South America and many others.

You can share your favorite pictures with your friends on Facebook, MySpace and other social networking sites. Some images are also available for purchase.

So if you are sitting at your desk and daydreaming about taking a vacation, take a virtual getaway with the photos at Life.com.

Little Black Travel Diary: Francine Segan (Food Historian & Author)

Francine Segan

 

 

www.FrancineSegan.com

 

From the dining customs of ancient Greece to America's sweet dessert history, Francine Segan dishes out tasty food facts in her books and lectures. Her most recent book, Opera Lover's Cookbook, was nominated for the prestigious James Beard award. Francine is also the author of Movie Menus, Shakespeare's Kitchen, and The Philosopher's Kitchen. Her expertise and ebullient personality have made Francine an in-demand guest on radio and television for CBS, the Food Network and the History and Discovery channels. An avid traveler, Francine explores the world researching culinary history and the latest food trends. Let's peek inside the Little Black Travel Diary of Francine Segan!

 

 

My first memory of traveling is riding the subway to Brooklyn with my Italian grandma to get a special Sicilian Christmas dessert.  I was so small that I didn’t even have to sneak under the turnstiles, I cleared them by at least a foot.

I never travel without my business cards. Traveling is the best, and most fun, way to network.

 

My favorite destination is Italy, especially Piedmont in the north. It’s still a relatively little known region but with great shopping, art, and fabulous food.

The taste of red wine reminds me of Italy.

My favorite traveling companion is myself

 

Traveling alone is awesome! I get to do whatever I want whenever I want. Plus I have lots of stories to tell my hubbie when I get back. It sure keeps the marriage exciting to take separate vacations once a year.

 

I dream of visiting Istanbul, especially their spice markets.

 

A film, book, or song that awakens my wanderlust is my photo album. Whenever I look at pictures of some place I’ve been, I get a craving to return.

 

My favorite traveling outfit is a pair of black slacks and a fabulous black jacket by Christian Lacroix that I picked up in Cannes on sale. The jacket is wrinkle-proof and easy to dress up or down. 

 

My most unforgettable traveling experience was spending a week at a chocolate plantation in Belize. Raw coco beans tastes nothing like chocolate candy. The process of turning the beans into what we recognize as chocolate is absolutely fascinating. The cacao beans actually have to ferment, just like wine.

 

When I have been away from home for a long time, the thing I miss the most is speaking English and my own cooking.

 

If I could travel back in time, I would go to Ancient Rome. What a hoot to see all those ruins in Rome looking brand new. Plus togas seem very flattering!

 

My travel icon is my best friend in Italy, Angela Traversa. She’s always flat broke, but always traveling. She figures out ways to get cheap airfares and interesting deals. She’s been everywhere and has friends all around the world.

 

My must have beauty product when traveling is Vaseline. It does triple duty. It’s great to take off makeup, but is also a good moisturizer and burn cream.

 

My words of travel wisdom are TRAVEL. Even if it’s just a train ride to a nearby city, get out there. When you’re “traveling” –no matter the destination or duration—you tend to live the time more fully.